When two (or more) are in the moment, not much is running through ones’ mind. Something that might slip is the thought of protection, STD’s, and babies. I mean, the feeling is so overwhelming. Spots are touched, hit, licked and bit! Juices flow, bodies are flipped and turned until the energy is gone and you’re both laid out thinking about what just happened or what needs to happen next.
In this situation, no one’s fault is bigger than the other. If neither wanted a child then both should have taken precautions to prevent it from happening. What’s next? Abortion (dare I say) is an option, but is it the best? You can do adoption and give the baby to a happy family who will do their best at raising your child or you can step up and raise this beautiful unexpected surprise yourself. The child did not ask to be here and shouldn’t have to pay for your disregard. I am not saying that in all cases the parents have to raise the child and abortion and adoption are out of the picture. To each its own. What I am saying is that if the decision is made to bring a child into this world, a decision should be made to stop playing the blame game or trapped charades and just provide for that child the best way you know how. Blaming one another serves no justice. Hell, blame me! Now that it is out of the way, focus on the child and do what you need to do.
Cheers to safe sex!