I had a friend ask me “how do you know which guy at the club is the right one to get serious with?” Ok, so in case others are a little stuck in this area as well, let me help you out. Do not have intentions on being serious with anyone you meet at the club. I am not saying that it cannot happen, just don’t expect it to happen. The club or a party is a place to go to chill and hang out with your friends in an energized environment where you can, hopefully, forget about your worries for the night. It is not where you go to make your next move in life. For that reason, clubs and parties are the perfect place to scout for your one-night or summer fling. Let’s also add the beach, bars, or out of state/town trips (this really depends on how the two of you handle it. You can make it more if that’s the intentions) to this list.
To be honest, you can meet people almost anywhere where the intentions can be almost anything. It all depends on what you want, what you are looking for and the communication between you and the person you spy. Just keep an eye out for children by their side, wedding rings, wedding ring tans, what’s in the shopping cart and who’s tagging along with them. This could be an indication of what you are about to get into, what you can expect and may lead to some questions you want to ask before you propose anything.
Best of Luck!
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