The saying is finally true, “it’s not you, it’s me.” You damn right it’s you. Stop dating the same type of person expecting different results. It’s not going to happen. Don’t settle and don’t budge. Try something new and see what results you get. I’m not saying you have to be pretentious and have these incredibly high standards. No, I am saying that you either need to switch things up or stop lowering your value, or both! There are so many varieties of people to date in the world, don’t get comfortable with just one when that one isn’t working out. Ask Santa for something different this Christmas and see how that sets off your new year.