between you guys. You can predict the turn, flip, twists, bends, strokes and
finale. That can be a horrible experience that you may even begin to dread going
through. Relationships aren't supposed to be based on sex (solely), but sex does
play a role and no one likes boring sex. Here are a few things that you can do to
keep the sex unpredictable!
First things first, don't be afraid to try new things. If you want to take things slow
first then let’s start with setting the mood. It gets boring to get busy in the
same place, same white walls and nothing else. Let’s try dim lights, slow
seductive music (no rap!), maybe some candles and rose petals…..ok maybe the
rose petals are a bit played out, but you can play around with a few things.
Maybe pieces of clothing that leads to the bedroom or bathroom where you await
or little note cards with poems or riddles for them to
Do you find yourself trying to find the time? Maybe work or children take
up so much time that you have to do it before bed or before work in the morning.
Let’s try to be more random and wake up in the middle of the night (or morning)
and get it started! Why not have each other for lunch. A quickie will definitely
set you up for full service later.
Other ideas you can use are shopping at the toy store together. They have
more things than just dildos. Try doing some role playing, different positions,
different locations (that are legal!) and more oral sex! Just remember with oral
sex, a healthy appetite is best 30 minutes to an hour before the main event. If
you want to keep this relationship going in the right direction, stay away from
three-somes. Those are for before the relationships and may have a 50/50 affect
on you guys. You have been warned!
There are so many things that you guys can do, I just gave you guys a few
for starters. Usually the foreplay change is all you need. If it is the stroke,
arousal or staying moist that’s inhibiting you, stay tuned for future articles
to help with that!