Relationships-I get it, we don’t always like to be alone. Maybe she is a really good cook and he’s real handy around the house, or the other way around. Either way, you win by holding on. Wrong! You are only cheating yourself. How can you flirt or talk to other people when you are supposed to be in a committed relationship? What if you actually enjoy your alone time instead of spending every free second with this one over here? You can obtain consistency with honesty. There is a really good chance that some one feels exactly how you feel in regards to relationships and is willing to accommodate you in some way without the commitment. I’m actually pretty sure that there are more people who want no strings than there are those who want strings.
Orgasm-Yep, I said it. The big O! Is it really that bad that you have to fake it instead of face it? Some of us need to be like Rihanna in Rude Boy. “Baby, if I don’t feel it I’m not faking no, no!” And that’s how it should be. Sex should be pleasing for all parties. It should bring you both pleasure to make one another fall victim to your tantalizing actions. Make sex a game if it helps. With sex games, no one loses. Teach them. Tell them where you like the most attention. Tell them what they do right and what can be better. Explain what triggers your pleasure juices and how they can trigger it every time. If you do not know these answers then you can either explore your body alone or with them to find out. The choice is yours.
While I know there are plenty of other areas where it’s real vs. fake, this is what I want to hit on today. I am always hitting on honesty, trust, and communication. These don’t just apply to one area of your life, but all; within and with all. Incorporate more of this into your life and see just how much your life improves. It’s so refreshing.