Unfortunately, in my experience, guys are not the best or quickest at expressing their emotions, but that is not to say that guys don’t love hard, especially their first love. When a guy is truly in love, it is just like a child in love with their parents. It’s genuine and pure. When that love is tainted, it’s gone for a long time.
I am saying all of this to say that it isn’t always about you. We have to learn that if we have a good man on our hands then we should treat him like the man he is. Help him when he is down, don’t lead them on, and just support them in their good endeavors. Basically, you should treat your mate the way you want to be treated. I am not saying kiss ass, over do your part or put in more than you are getting out. I am saying to simply recognize when you have a good man on your hands and treat him as such. Don’t let the milk go bad and expect someone else to drink it. It will all come full circle eventually.