The more you get to know a person, the more intrigued you become, granted that you like what you are finding out. You want to know more, spend more time with them and talking to them. Similarities and commonalities bring you two closer together and this person can potentially be a lover…unless they have already placed you in the friend zone.

        There are some people who go into life with a mission and some who go just to live. This is how people go into relationships as well. There are people who date for marriage, for fun, for love, for a season, and for no reason at all. Before we get into all of that, what does it mean to date anyway? What is the difference between dating and talking? Is there a difference?

        The sun has begun to shine, weather has warmed up, short clothes are in full effect and the dating scene is open. If you are in a relationship then you may not go through the yearly  hibernation, but I am sure you can remember the days. Whipping out the razor and taking it all off! Or do you? When it is time to tame your lady parts (or male parts), do you keep the bush, trim your garden or have a naked mole rat?  We all have different preferences and our preferences could be personal or for pleasure. Some may prefer to go bare or keep the hair. You can always find a benefit and downfall in all three.

        There’s this person. Amazing person! You two have great conversations, share a lot of the same interests, and genuinely enjoy each others company. So sex is finally brought up and you find out this amazing person is celibate with no end date stamped anywhere on them. What do you do? Is this one thing worth you leaving or does it make you want to stay more?