Love Me.....or Love Me Not

Can you be in love with two people at the same time? No. Can you have love for two people at the same time? Well of course silly! I think that if you feel that you are in love with more than one person then this calls for a serious analysis. You can really like the friendship you have begun to build with someone. Maybe they give you the necessary attention you want, they are good listeners, help you escape from reality at times, buy you things you want and/or has really good sex. But is that it? How would your life be affected if they were no longer there? Would your world stop? Can you go on living if they ever left you? When you think about your future, whom do you see first, not whom you put there. When you are in love with someone, you don’t want to be without them. The thought of it damn near brings you to tears. Being in love fills you with an internal feeling when you are, or are not, around that person. You would be miserable without them. When you're in love, there are things you are willing to do that you never would have imagined you could ever bring yourself to do. When you just love someone, you would be upset (not necessarily angry) if they left u but u could go on. You would miss the conversations and company, but it won’t stop anything. Loving them is almost equivalent to loving a friend, maybe a little stronger but it isn’t “in love” love. To figure this out, I always suggest writing things down Write down what you like about them, EVERYTHING. Pay attention to the things you listed. If u named small things like a lazy eye, birth mark, natural smell, the way they talk, how they treat their mom, the way they eat and so forth then that’s the person you are more than likely in love with. You need to talk to them and try to fix whatever issues you guys are having and back down from the other person. If you are not in a relationship with them, then you may want to pursue it and see where it leads you.
                       
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