Ladies, have you ever had a partner who tended to always show up late to the party? Or when they came to the party, they came early? Uhhh…you know, showed UP late, CAME early. Ok, there was erection or arousal problems and/or they were one minute men. What’s up with that? There could be a medical issue or just an arousal issue.
If a man cannot become or stay erect, he could have erectile dysfunction. According to Medline Plus, a service of the U.S. National Library of Medicine, this usually occurs in adult men, but almost all men can experience a time where it is difficult to get or keep an erection. To rule out erectile dysfunction, Medline says to consider the amount of nighttime erections your man has. A man typically has three to five erections during the night and an erection in the morning. If these erections occur, then the chances of it being a dysfunction are slim. Medline notes that an erection involves your brain, nerves, hormones and blood vessels. Anything interfering with any of these can lead to an erection problem. Those things can very well be diseases like high blood pressure, diabetes, heart issues, depression and so forth, medication taken for those conditions, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, spinal cord injury, stress, and anxiety. If one of these is an issue, Medline suggest making lifestyle changes such as eating healthy, exercise, cutting back on the alcohol and cigarette use and talking to your partner. If there is still no erection after the changes, then you may want to consult a doctor.
Also to assist with the premature ejaculation, Cosmo recommends a few things. First, get him to understand when the ejaculation sensation comes so that he can stop or switch it up. Do this by stroking him during foreplay and have him to let you know when he is about to explode. When he does, stop for a little while, 30 seconds, and when the feeling goes away, resume the stroke. Do this a few times before you eventually let him cum. This should help him become in tune with his body and be able to hold himself back, Cosmo says. Cosmo also recommends the girl get on top during sex. She is now in control and can stop or get off when he gets too excited. Do not allow him to thrust because that puts him in control and he may not stop, leading to a very unhappy you who did not reach her peak!
SP wants you to know that a medical issue may not be the problem. It can very well be that the guy is overly excited, tired or lacks a physical attraction. I know that last part hurts, but it could possibly be an issue. If it was an issue, I think you would know from other things that he does so let’s not fret over that. To get rid of the erection problem and to also solve the early ejaculation, try oral sex first. This allows him to get the first “nut” off, which is usually the quickest “nut”. It is a foreplay technique, and if your head game is tight, then it is sure to get him aroused. If you aren’t the best at giving head, look at porn together. Pay attention to what she is doing so that you can mimic her. The sex being performed may also help him become erect. If you can’t bring yourself to watch porn, then here are a few tips: Give special attention to the head and just under the head, suck do not bite, slowly take in the entire penis with every dip. If you cannot, then place one hand at the base and stroke the penis as you give fellatio massaging in your spit and tightening and loosening your hand as your mouth does, let your mouth act as a vjj, relaxed going in and tight coming out, and slob on his knobs (the spit is thick so you either swallow or let it slide down).
You guys can try penis rings. These small rings sold at novelty and toy stores go around the penis and restrict the blood flow causing the penis to stay aroused longer. Also try other things like a strip tease, playing games, massages, fondling, stroking and so forth. Some of the simplest things are the best solutions. This should assist with an attraction problem, if there is one, as well as arousal. With the first nut out of the way, this should give him more energy and stamina to go full throttle. Now, I can’t guarantee that he will be a mustang or go dumb in the box, but it will be longer than the first time…I just can’t say how much longer.
Stay up,
SP
Also to assist with the premature ejaculation, Cosmo recommends a few things. First, get him to understand when the ejaculation sensation comes so that he can stop or switch it up. Do this by stroking him during foreplay and have him to let you know when he is about to explode. When he does, stop for a little while, 30 seconds, and when the feeling goes away, resume the stroke. Do this a few times before you eventually let him cum. This should help him become in tune with his body and be able to hold himself back, Cosmo says. Cosmo also recommends the girl get on top during sex. She is now in control and can stop or get off when he gets too excited. Do not allow him to thrust because that puts him in control and he may not stop, leading to a very unhappy you who did not reach her peak!
SP wants you to know that a medical issue may not be the problem. It can very well be that the guy is overly excited, tired or lacks a physical attraction. I know that last part hurts, but it could possibly be an issue. If it was an issue, I think you would know from other things that he does so let’s not fret over that. To get rid of the erection problem and to also solve the early ejaculation, try oral sex first. This allows him to get the first “nut” off, which is usually the quickest “nut”. It is a foreplay technique, and if your head game is tight, then it is sure to get him aroused. If you aren’t the best at giving head, look at porn together. Pay attention to what she is doing so that you can mimic her. The sex being performed may also help him become erect. If you can’t bring yourself to watch porn, then here are a few tips: Give special attention to the head and just under the head, suck do not bite, slowly take in the entire penis with every dip. If you cannot, then place one hand at the base and stroke the penis as you give fellatio massaging in your spit and tightening and loosening your hand as your mouth does, let your mouth act as a vjj, relaxed going in and tight coming out, and slob on his knobs (the spit is thick so you either swallow or let it slide down).
You guys can try penis rings. These small rings sold at novelty and toy stores go around the penis and restrict the blood flow causing the penis to stay aroused longer. Also try other things like a strip tease, playing games, massages, fondling, stroking and so forth. Some of the simplest things are the best solutions. This should assist with an attraction problem, if there is one, as well as arousal. With the first nut out of the way, this should give him more energy and stamina to go full throttle. Now, I can’t guarantee that he will be a mustang or go dumb in the box, but it will be longer than the first time…I just can’t say how much longer.
Stay up,
SP
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