In a world full of fakes, it’s hard to see what’s real. I mean seriously, not only are materialistic things fake, but everything else. People, relationships, and…….ORGASMS!!!!!!! C’mon, why are we still faking? We are in the 21st century and it is time that we are honest with ourselves and others. Honesty isn’t always the end of the world.
Personality-Some people believe that acting a certain way will lead you to the ultimate lifestyle you desire. While you may attract attention, go out with new people, or earn a little more money, are you happy? If you want the best outcome in life then just be yourself. Enjoy life doing things that you like to do. While money unfortunately plays a big role in our life, it doesn’t have to dictate your life and neither do those who believe you are someone you aren’t. Take a step back, reevaluate the situation and do what makes you happy...as long as it is legal.
Relationships-I get it, we don’t always like to be alone. Maybe she is a really good cook and he’s real handy around the house, or the other way around. Either way, you win by holding on. Wrong! You are only cheating yourself. How can you flirt or talk to other people when you are supposed to be in a committed relationship? What if you actually enjoy your alone time instead of spending every free second with this one over here? You can obtain consistency with honesty. There is a really good chance that some one feels exactly how you feel in regards to relationships and is willing to accommodate you in some way without the commitment. I’m actually pretty sure that there are more people who want no strings than there are those who want strings.
Orgasm-Yep, I said it. The big O! Is it really that bad that you have to fake it instead of face it? Some of us need to be like Rihanna in Rude Boy. “Baby, if I don’t feel it I’m not faking no, no!” And that’s how it should be. Sex should be pleasing for all parties. It should bring you both pleasure to make one another fall victim to your tantalizing actions. Make sex a game if it helps. With sex games, no one loses. Teach them. Tell them where you like the most attention. Tell them what they do right and what can be better. Explain what triggers your pleasure juices and how they can trigger it every time. If you do not know these answers then you can either explore your body alone or with them to find out. The choice is yours.
While I know there are plenty of other areas where it’s real vs. fake, this is what I want to hit on today. I am always hitting on honesty, trust, and communication. These don’t just apply to one area of your life, but all; within and with all. Incorporate more of this into your life and see just how much your life improves. It’s so refreshing.
With Love,
SP
Relationships-I get it, we don’t always like to be alone. Maybe she is a really good cook and he’s real handy around the house, or the other way around. Either way, you win by holding on. Wrong! You are only cheating yourself. How can you flirt or talk to other people when you are supposed to be in a committed relationship? What if you actually enjoy your alone time instead of spending every free second with this one over here? You can obtain consistency with honesty. There is a really good chance that some one feels exactly how you feel in regards to relationships and is willing to accommodate you in some way without the commitment. I’m actually pretty sure that there are more people who want no strings than there are those who want strings.
Orgasm-Yep, I said it. The big O! Is it really that bad that you have to fake it instead of face it? Some of us need to be like Rihanna in Rude Boy. “Baby, if I don’t feel it I’m not faking no, no!” And that’s how it should be. Sex should be pleasing for all parties. It should bring you both pleasure to make one another fall victim to your tantalizing actions. Make sex a game if it helps. With sex games, no one loses. Teach them. Tell them where you like the most attention. Tell them what they do right and what can be better. Explain what triggers your pleasure juices and how they can trigger it every time. If you do not know these answers then you can either explore your body alone or with them to find out. The choice is yours.
While I know there are plenty of other areas where it’s real vs. fake, this is what I want to hit on today. I am always hitting on honesty, trust, and communication. These don’t just apply to one area of your life, but all; within and with all. Incorporate more of this into your life and see just how much your life improves. It’s so refreshing.
With Love,
SP
****This photo was borrowed from http://www.corynikkel.com/2012/12/19/real-and-fake-faith/ . Please click on the photo to be redirected to the site.
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