Sharing is Not Always Caring

1/10/2013

So here is the scenario. You meet this great person. They definitely have sex appeal, they are doing something with their life, job, own spot, all of everything you are looking for. The only thing they come with that you don’t want….is a relationship! Ok, so now what do you do? Nothing. I wouldn’t advise anyone to get involved with someone who is already in a relationship. They can care less about you and your feelings if they can just mess around on their partner. In my opinion, it is always best to break up with the person you are with, granted that you are unhappy, if you want to start something with someone else. Yes, you could be that special exception to the rule, but I advise you not to take that chance. If it is meant for you two to be together then let fate do its job and place the two of you together when you both are single. Everyone deserves their own relationship, don’t devalue yourself by agreeing to share!

Sincerely,
SP

6 Comments

QueenOfHearts

1/11/2013 11:29:34 am

Ok so what if there is an open relationship ??? Is sharing bad then ?? Whos wrong you or the ppl who choose to share their partner ?? Does it make for a worse mess ??

1/12/2013 09:23:36 am

An open relationship would be an exception. You two have agreed under certain conditions and to certain extents that it is ok to date and probably share relations with other ppl. No one is exactly wrong if you gave permission, but if something comes from it that you wasn't expecting then that is something you have to deal with that. Does it make a bigger mess? I think that depends on how deep the bond between the actually couple is, hoe deep the loyalty and love is and then on if anything develops outside of the couple

Chonnie

1/15/2013 09:28:14 am

This is a complicated situation. Sometimes we don't allow fate to take its course because we hold on to false hope. Sometimes we just don't want to break anyone's heart, and other times it's confusion. How do you let go of something so secure, to get into something you're not sure of? Hmmm

1/15/2013 03:40:05 pm

Think of it as if you were the one at home while your partner was out trying to figure out what he or she wanted......think about if you found out about it.

1/15/2013 09:41:40 am

That was well put and i agree with everything you said. It is basically a waste of time, why ruin what someone has. This then takes you to the 80/20 rule they would have to be sure that the person they're "cheating" with is worth it in the end.

1/15/2013 03:41:51 pm

I agree. I'm always against cheating.

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